I don't even know where to begin. What do you do when you don't know where to begin? Do you just keep going, walking a straight line, or walking in circles? I have visited this blog over and over again. Like a circle. I have somehow lost my way to find that straight line, or maybe I just realized life is not a straight line and I just got tired of following it.
Perhaps I just grew weary of climbing.
I have logged in. Logged out. Pretended it no longer existed…
I didn't want to remember, what I used to be; how far the current of the river had taken me away from where I left off. My footprints had succumbed to the thousand other footprints that still had the eagerness to go forward; to not stand still; to explore.
I forgot which way I was going. Or perhaps, I made myself forget.
It was too hard to come back to. Too hard to just exist. I know none of this makes any sense. It didn't, and still doesn't to me. I wrote so many times, but I didn't want to share. I didn't want this to be a diary. What started out as a fitness journey, collapsed at the death of my best friend.
It's been two years. I've been through every emotion, and found myself at the bottom too many times. I was pretty certain that I was ready to die. I was done with life. I had done all I had to; experienced everything I wanted, and saw no point in living any longer.
There was no point in going to the gym. No point in getting dressed or putting makeup on.No point in leaving the house. I was done. Officially done.
I was ready for the tide to take me in its icy arms and cradle me forever.
People left me alone, as I wanted them to, I didn't care. I didn't want anyone. And when I did talk to someone, it was usually a family member, and they didn't understand, nor did I care to ever make them understand.
What was going on with me, "Was 'just nonsense'… Was, as they say, 'all in my head".
"Why can't you just get out and do things."Why can't you just…
Why can't you just...
Why can't you just…
The screams echoes inside of me, and just confirmed that I…
I was done. I did not care. Why do I need to go anywhere? I did not care. I lived my life. I was done. But I knew that they, or no one who hasn't ever experienced it, would only ridicule me and judge me. So I decided it was best to just limit my contact with them, and when I did talk to them, I made sure to never discuss what was going on with me.
I didn't want to commit suicide. I didn't want to leave my kids without a mother. I did not want to take my own life; I was just ready to die.
It doesn't make any sense. I know that. But, nothing made sense to me, and I can't say I ever cared.
My mind didn't go beyond the footprints that were buried on that path, in the same spot. No longer were the etches of the life that I once had lived recognizable. Everything I once knew or dreamed of, traveled on without me, clinging to others' footprints, seeping into the crevices of another sole, and then dragged until the remnants; what was left, had fallen into the once well paved path.
A lot can happens in a year, 'they' say.
It's been 2 years, I believe, since I even had the urge to write something, anything…
So much has changed. Rightfully so. Life, in general, changes you.
Moments change you, and some of those moments, change A LOT, as they rob you of your identity, your soul, spirit, energy and your footprints.
I often imagine, selfishly, that the ocean is cradling me and I'm at peace, relaxed and full of life.
And then, I unravel from its arms as it crashes to shore…
I wipe my tears. My eyes widen, my heart thumps harder…spread out before me is an entire canvas to sink my feet into; to carve new footprints. And as I hear the water's sweet sound washing away behind me, I place one foot in the sand, and then the other, carefully allowing the cold, damp sand between my toes, wrapping them like a gift.
And I can't help but notice that each footprint is deeper then the last.